Do you feel that you deserve to be successful?

This past week there’s a theme among my clients who are struggling with their finances.

You get to the point where there’s only so much you can cut down from your budget unless you want to make drastic lifestyle changes but most people aren’t ready right away.

So the next thing we work on is to figure out how to make more money.

This is where we find out their core deep issues.

A common theme among my clients is that they don’t feel they deserve to be successful or they’re not worthy of it.

Unfortunately, you get what you believe in. 

Too many put an invisible glass ceiling due to their limiting beliefs that they don’t deserve to make more, that making more money is like taking away from someone else. 

Due to these beliefs, you stay where you are at until you heal and work through those money traumas so you can transform your relationship with money.

Most come from their childhood that they’re not aware of. Part of the work we do is going through their money history to identify where did the core defeating money scripts and belief came from. 

Then we can start our real work from there.

The first step to healing is awareness. You can do all the practical work you want but if you don’t deal with your emotional issues, it won’t last.

And this is not something you can just google away. 😊


Christine Teh is a personal finance coach who lives in Silicon Valley and serve clients virtually. She also offers tax preparation and consulting services and LinkedIn coaching as well.

Schedule a complimentary chat now to see if her financial coaching services are right for you!
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Top 3 Reasons People Stay broke

Step 1 👉🏻 Visualize being rich
Step 2 👉🏻 Do nothing
Step 3 👉🏻 Repeat steps 1 and 2

The above is meant to be humorous but I have encountered people who think just visualizing and doing positive affirmations and believing that they'll be rich is going to get them rich.

Sorry to share the news, but NO that won't get you anywhere if you don't take any action. Visualization and positive affirmations are there to provide you a tool so you can take inspired actions that can propel you towards the goals you visualize about. 

Also hiring a coach won't get you anywhere if you don't do the work. We can only lead the horse to water but we can't make them drink.


Christine Teh is a personal finance coach who lives in Silicon Valley and serve clients virtually. She also offers tax preparation and consulting services and LinkedIn coaching as well.

Schedule a complimentary chat now to see if her financial coaching services are right for you!
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What about money are you grateful for?

Remember you attract more of what you’re grateful for.

So let me start by sharing my top 5 reasons I’m grateful about money.

• Money allowed me to buy a home I love and not worry about rising rents

, especially in Silicon Valley, where rents are always increasing.

• Money allowed me to live a lifestyle that I love.
• Money allowed me to pay for insurance for myself and for my fur babies. Remember, you don’t want to not have insurance. Life happens and just think about how much it would cost you if you got coronavirus and you have to stay in the hospital for a while.
• Money allows me to send money to my family in the Philippines. My family may be considered poor by some people so I am grateful that when my mom needs money, I can gladly send it to her.
• Money allowed me to save enough in my emergency fund so I don’t have to panic during the next few months while the vaccination for Covid-19 is still being worked on.

So now it’s your turn, what are you grateful for money? What has money done for you? 
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Christine Teh is a personal finance coach who lives in Silicon Valley and serve clients virtually. She also offers tax preparation and consulting services and LinkedIn coaching as well.

Schedule a complimentary chat now to see if her financial coaching services are right for you!
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Is having credit cards bad?

Should we all just use cash and debit card?

I personally love using credit cards and my goal actually is for my clients to be able to use this responsibly unless they choose not to.

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with credit cards. I don’t believe in just using cash and debit for the rest of your life. Credit cards are amazing if used appropriately and responsibly.

Like with money, it’s just a tool. If used appropriately, can give you lots of “rewards”.  Points, cash back, travel benefits to name a few...

On top of the rewards I listed, you also have protection. Just think about if you paid some stranger or store using cash or debit. Your money is gone and getting them back would be harder versus you calling your bank and disputing a charge on your credit card.

To me the safety protection I just mentioned above is the most important. I don’t have to ever worry when I make a transaction.

If someone steals my credit card number, I can always call and get another card. Hopefully that doesn’t happen too often but it has happened to me in the past.
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Again, I would never recommend or encourage anyone, much less my clients to use credit cards until they “graduated”. Graduated means they have built a strong relationship with money, they are confident to always be on positive cash flow and know how to handle the nuances and emergencies life throws at the  without freaking out and going negative and carrying balances on their card.
So what do you think?


Christine Teh is a personal finance coach who lives in Silicon Valley and serve clients virtually. She also offers tax preparation and consulting services and LinkedIn coaching as well.

Schedule a complimentary chat now to see if her financial coaching services are right for you!

There’s a difference between being frugal and being cheap.

The big thing they have in common is both love to save money.

Here is where they are different:

• Frugal people assess the bigger picture and have the patience to cash in on simple savings strategies
• Cheap people are driven by saving money regardless of cost
• Frugal people are driven by maximizing total value, including the value of their time
• Cheap people use price as a bottom line
• Frugal people use value as a bottom line

I used to be cheap until I transformed my relationship with money.

Time is valuable.

If I have to spend 2 hours to save $100 on a flight or walk half an hour just to save $10 on parking.

Do you think it's worth it?

I’m sure we all have a similar story to share. 😉

Also, pay attention to signs that you have gone from frugal to being cheap.

• When you constantly skip or scrimp on important events because of the cost. If you turn down events and use money as an excuse over personal relationships, then you have some rethinking to do.
• When you start insulting and judging your friends’ spending habits. How other people spend or save money is none of your business unless it directly affects you or if you happen to be their financial coach. 😉
• You drive across town to save a buck or you would walk 20 minutes to save on parking.
• You are constantly replacing broken items because you value cheap over quality.
• You’re a sucker for sales.
• You buy from Costco and return it after using it. Saw the news on people returning Christmas trees after the fact? 😒

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Christine Teh is a personal finance coach who lives in Silicon Valley and serve clients virtually. She also offers tax preparation and consulting services and LinkedIn coaching as well.

Schedule a complimentary chat now to see if her financial coaching services is right for you!